Sunday, November 13, 2011

She.

You want to know what a woman really is?

~ She says 'Fine' in a scornful manner to her partner is because she is disappointed at the realization that this is not the first time she will have to bend for someone.

~ She talks about competing with men in all walks of life because she has spent her childhood seeing her parents sneak in an extra chocolate for her brother; she sees this competition as a chance to wipe out the unfairness off her life.

~ She calls to say 'I love you' a hundred times over the phone because she does not want anyone to suffer from the feeling of not being love- something she has probably suffered in her life.

~ If ever you take her out to buy a gift, she will window-shop in every single store and settle for just one tee. You wonder, "So much time for buying one tee?", but what you do not realize is that she has already got her biggest gift ever- your time.

~ She is aware of the fact that her husband/lover lies to her about his smoking and drinking habits but she would not judge him because she knows the feeling of having one's freedom curtailed.

~ Sometimes, she dresses up in clothes which are not exactly comfortable when she steps out to meet you because she likes the way your face lights up.

~ She gives up the love of her life because her parents begged her to save their face in the society and forever live with a broken heart and shattered hopes.

~ She quits her job because she suffers sleepless nights after her kid injured himself badly while she was away at work.

And so on.....

Half of the men do not even realize the sacrifices a woman has to make throughout her lifetime and she never makes a big fuss about it. She silently endures it all for love-something which she might never get in her life in spite of all this. Now go hug the woman in your life- you cannot get any luckier!

10 comments:

  1. well said dear...:)

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  2. Wow, I never thought so many people are going to agree with me.

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  3. dearo...hats off to women...no doubt abt it...bt while i ws reading it...i cud sense personal touch to a few statments...I may be wrong bt if m nt..'Shit happens..n its ok...it usually happens once in a while'. I strongly believe that man can neva match women in terms of role-play in a society! But thn thts d beauty abt them n tht is what they r respected for!

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  4. nice :) But not true in case of all gals... ;)

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  5. May be not in with the times of your
    a) do and let go....do not expect marks for deed.
    b) be a witness of self...be happy watching you playing your own role.
    c)you are full in your self...you think you have lost so many things and may be have fear it to happen again......but the judge, judgement and the convict is you yourself.....drain of energy....do not be attached to anything....& be happy...spread happiness....BE HONEST, ACT HONEST, WITH SELF...

    jayant

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  6. well said...(Missed a lot of previous posts let me read them and then i will be back on this.. :) )

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  7. had never thought of the 4th point :S :)

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